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“ My surgery was a success, and my doctors have given me the go-ahead to play again next season, but it’s been over a decade since my initial injury, and I needed to hang up my skates. I’ve been sidelined for about 11 years.  I was always a really aggressive player, and I’ve never been one…

“ When you take a moment to pause and label the emotion you’re feeling, you’re asking your prefrontal cortex to get involved, which pulls the activation out of the amygdala where your brain is processing threat or no threat. Instead of being overwhelmed by the physiological experience of the emotion. It creates psychological distance so you…

“I just had my 12-week post-op follow-up with my doctor. It was a good appointment and things are pretty much where they are supposed to be at this stage. But I’ve been hitting a wall in my PT in terms of fatigue and overall enthusiasm. Most days, my energy is very low, and I’m trying…

“ I’ve had to learn how to ask for help. I am grateful for my independence. I’m grateful for the fact that if I want something, I go get it. And my work ethic—I work in sales and my success of being an athlete, I owe it to that. But at the end of the day,…

“ I’m feeling like my injury has really held me back in life. My first two years of college, I was trying to survive school while recovering from a car accident. I’ve needed every extension and have had many surgeries after that, which have affected my schooling and life in general. Now I’m ready to transfer…

“ Whatever you’re feeling, whether it be anger, hatred, sadness, disappointment—it’s okay. You’re allowed to feel those things. That is valid. But just know that this situation— yes, NF is a lifelong diagnosis, and not having a cure, it does change your life trajectory a little bit. But it doesn’t dictate how you have to live…

“How do you navigate phantom pains and constant re-injury fears after recovering from a bone stress injury?” —Marija   Fear is one of the brain’s ways of protecting the body when it’s injured. But often, our anxiety lingers long after it’s useful. Our bodies and minds don’t always recover at the same rate, Coach Carrie…

  “ Representation does matter. Because I’ve been to Zambia, Ethiopia, and Kenya with this same team, and when they see somebody who looks like them and is also walking on prosthetics … this child might be 18 and has never had a prosthetic. Now they’re like, ‘Oh, I have the motivation to not only try…

“The most frustrating thing is when older women in their 70s and 80s keep pestering me when I’m injured. I call them the ‘I-told-you-so ladies.’ I feel like they’re giving me unsolicited advice and discouraging me to go back to lifting. Sometimes their comments hurt. One lady is a retired bodybuilder and a personal trainer…

“ I think this is also what helps with the athlete transition—and even when you’re dealing with injury and you’re going to recover—is your relationship to the sport. Because that’s what I realized: There’s this feeling of loss and grief, and it’s like somebody died, but at the same time, it doesn’t really actually have to…